It’s hard to love someone who is unlovable.

Actually, it’s impossible to love a grouchy person unless you are in “in Christ.” In Christ, we have HIS love in us, so we can love others, not with our own love, but with His love living in us. God commands us to love. All the commandments are summed up in this, LOVE.

If God commands you to love even the hardest to love, then you know he will provide you with the love to do it. You will grow exponentially in using this love of His in you.

We love others for His Sake, if not theirs.

We love because He first loved us. Because His love resides in us, we have the ability to truly love others.

So how do you do it?

Well here is a tip. Know this, that you may not want to love them, but you are loving them for God’s sake. Do it for HIM and know that his reward is coming your way. He can’t let you out give him. He will not be out done. He will reward you in this life. Just wait and watch. The greatest gift you can give God is love to someone else.

Romans 5:5‬

​“And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out His love into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, whom He has given us. ”

Your Thoughts are Killing You!

"Take Control of Your Mind and Close the Door to those Negative, Depressing, Fearful, Worrisome Thoughts Forever."

Do you struggle with thoughts of shame or guilt, feeling burdened, lost, and overwhelmed? Maybe you believe you are stuck in a pit and can’t get out, and even worse you believe you deserve to be there.


I understand, because I was once there too! I wrote my book “Your Thoughts are Killing You” in order to share this message—God wants the best for you, and He has the means to get you there!